I recently had a quick chat with my friend and classmate on my way home and we came across a very peculiar topic.
Almost all of us dreamt of achieving something or becoming someone better at some point. That luxurious car we are eyeing, a profession that we wanted to practice, or a role that we wanted to be good at. But what really separates us from our dreams? This is our attitude. Attitude towards to goal you see in front of you.
I have been struggling about having a stagnant growth spiritually just recently. I was looking for the Ideal mentor, since one of my mentors went abroad as a missionary. There are many people around me who want to do it, but I have this standard that I have raised. Partly because I was thinking that my previous mentor was the “all in one package”. That there is a high possibility that others might not be at par with him. Another reason is because my interest is only piqued when I learn something I haven’t heard before. I need an out of the box discipler in short.
But that was where I made a mistake. I put up a fence so high that no one can get inside anymore. And since no one can get through the high fence, weeds grew up and covered the whole lawn. I felt bad that I am not learning that much anymore on church gatherings, I slowly and surely sank into something that only uses critical thinking, and not lean towards the Holy Spirit anymore.
Here’s a problem with dreamers: you dream so many things and end up having burdens on almost all of the things you think about. I am not saying that having dreams and aspirations are bad. But you see, burdens are born out of a need. And for burdens to become realities, we need to work hard for it/on it. My friend taught me that burdens become frustrations if not dealt with. These frustrations become the start of divisions and contempt. So what do we do now? Common sense. We do something about it.
I dreamt of a church wherein there were people who evangelized. A church with many workers that are trained well to take care of kids, so that I can focus intently on the preaching being delivered. I have so many wishes about the media team that I was handling. But I was rebuked hard, because the only thing I was doing was just dreaming. I never did try to connect with the people around me who wanted to train me, or those that wanted training. Instead, I sulked and sulked some more, hoping that one day I would see these people come my way. But God never really goes in terms with us, especially if we are on the wrong side. My friend told me this, “You have been trying to look for an ideal pastor, where you should have been submitting to your pastor. ”
This woke me up from my senses and got me thinking. What have I been doing all this time? Why haven’t I connected my dreams with the dreams of my pastors? Why have I been so proud of myself that I had looked down on others?
I was really humbled down by this message and started to think. Contemplating on the word submission. It is said that if you are not submitting, you are rebelling. If you are not for him, you are against him. I prayed to God intently about my shortcomings. I know I am far from perfect, nobody is. But that’s why we borrow God’s attributes and try to emulate what He wants. Because through him, we can achieve perfection. I am just thankful that I learned so many things, even if I learned it the hard way. And I learned that it’s not about how good or ideal the teacher is. What matters is the willingness of the follower to submit and be discipled.
Dreaming is one thing, but doing is another. Wanting something ideal is good. But it is always better to obey what God wants. One day, I know my dreams will come true, but to start doing it, I should start obeying God too.